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The Real Cost of Doing the Wrong Work Well

Updated: 2 days ago


There’s a particular kind of burnout that follows high performers around like an overly loyal puppy.


I’m talking about the burnout that hits people who are excellent at what they do, but slowly get buried under work that has very little to do with the value they were actually intended to create.


It’s a strange phenomenon: the more capable someone is, the more invisible the misalignment becomes.


Instead of waving a flag that says, "This workload is structurally impossible,” high performers tend to say, "Let me see if I can brute force my way through it.”

For a while, they can. Competence is a powerful — and very misleading — survival tool.

But... competence used in the wrong places eventually becomes exhaustion. Not because the person is weak; because the system isn't designed to support them.


It’s a strange phenomenon: the more capable someone is, the more invisible the misalignment becomes.

The Real Cause of High Performer Burnout Isn’t Effort. It’s Misallocation.


When I work with exhausted leaders, it is usually because they're dedicated, talented and doing it all - without scaffolding that makes it all possible to do.


They're well-meaning and high-performing people who are:


  • handling work they should have delegated

  • holding responsibilities that belong to a different function

  • backfilling gaps in a system that hasn’t been maintained

  • carrying the emotional load of unmet expectations

  • operating in ambiguity that eats their mental bandwidth


They’re drowning not because the work is too hard — they’re drowning because the work is misaligned.


Wrong owner.

Wrong priority.

Wrong expectation.

Wrong assumptions.


This isn’t a motivational issue. It’s a structural one. If the system doesn’t support the work, it defaults to relying on individuals. And that’s never sustainable.


Exhaustion Is Data

Exhaustion isn’t a sign of failure. It’s a sign that the structure isn’t doing its job.

Most people interpret exhaustion as a personal failing. If I were stronger, smarter, more disciplined, or more organized, I wouldn’t feel like this.


But exhaustion is not a verdict. It’s a diagnostic readout.


It’s telling you:


  • The container is too small for the volume.

  • The workflow is too complex for the resources.

  • The expectations are too high for the available time.

  • The responsibilities are mismatched with the role.

  • The load is being carried by capability rather than structure.


When something feels personally heavy, look for the structural truth behind it.

Because nine times out of ten, there isn't enough structure to build off of.


Better Questions to Ask


When you start to notice the drain, don’t default to “What’s wrong with me/them?”

Ask: "What about this workload isn’t structurally sound?”


It’s a simple question, but it changes the entire frame.


Instead of assuming the solution is to try harder, you start asking the real questions:

  • Who should own this?

  • What happens if this doesn't get done?

  • Does this task match my role or just my capability?

  • Is the expectation clear, or am I assuming too much?

  • Is the system catching the work, or is an individual the system?

  • What would this look like if it were properly supported?


These are leadership questions. They shift the problem from individual willpower to organizational design — which is where it actually belongs.


The Bottom Line


High performers don’t burn out because they’re inadequate. They burn out because they’re unprotected.

Exhaustion isn’t a sign of failure. It’s a sign that the structure isn’t doing its job.


You don’t fix it with more grit.


You fix it with clarity, realignment, and a system that’s designed to carry the weight — so you don’t have to. Interested in learning more about our BISBLOX DNA - a business diagnostic that finds hidden mismatch and realigns effort with results? Check out our frequently asked questions or reach out to schedule an introduction.

 
 
 

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